“Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.” – 1 Corinthians 15:33 (KJV)
The people we associate with have a great influence on our lives. Whether we realise it or not, our relationships can gradually shape our thoughts, attitudes, decisions, habits, and even our values. This is why we must be careful about the company we keep.
Proverbs 13:20 reminds us that walking with wise people makes us wiser, while keeping the company of fools can lead us in the wrong direction. This does not mean we should look down on people or refuse to relate with those who are different from us. Rather, it means we must be mindful of those whose influence we permit to shape our lives.
Think about Rehoboam in 1 Kings 12:1–16. When he became king, he rejected the wise counsel of the older men and followed the advice of his younger companions. His decision eventually led to the division of the kingdom. This teaches us that the wrong influence can lead us into decisions with consequences far beyond what we imagine.
We must therefore examine our associations. Are the people around us encouraging discipline, wisdom, godliness, and growth, or are they gradually influencing us towards compromise? We must also remember that influence works both ways. Just as others can influence us, our attitudes and actions can influence them.
Being intentional about our associations is not about having perfect friends; it is about choosing relationships that do not pull us away from the values and purpose God has given us.
Reflection
What kind of influence do the people around me have on my life? Am I also conscious of the influence I have on others?
Key Point
Our associations can shape the direction of our lives. We must choose our relationships with wisdom and ensure that our influence encourages what is good and godly.
Confession
I receive wisdom to choose my associations carefully.
I will not allow negative influences to shape my values.
My relationships will encourage growth and godliness.
I will also be a positive influence on those around me.
Prayer
Father, give me wisdom and discernment in choosing my associations. Help me recognise influences that may lead me away from Your will. Let my relationships strengthen my character and faith, and help me become a positive influence in the lives of others. Amen.
Related Scriptures
Psalm 1:1–3, 1 Corinthians 15:33, 1 Kings 12:1–16, 2 Timothy 2:22
